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Saturday, May 18, 2013

Homo Sapiens evolving to Homo Socio-Sapiens

Thoughts for spring..... we are evolving and this is a fast part of a long cycle

Humans have been evolving and its been happening over so long, the changes have generally been so slow, we mostly don't take it into account in the course of one human life.

When I compare how I grew up to how my daughter grew up - I biked around the neighborhood every day after school - for fun! She walked to Borders books with friends - and they missed it terribly when the store closed - so much so, they bought souvenirs for each other when they sold the store fittings.

My social circle was limited to the folks I saw in school, the neighbors and local cousins plus a penpal in New Zealand.

Her social circle is unlimited - she is part of a tribe she joined on the Internet: At a young age, she wanted to go to LA to be part of the first Youtube conference put on by the Vlogbrothers & friends! So I went and was part of it too. It felt like the average age was 16 years, .... 12 year olds accompanied by one of their parents. I think there were 2000 people there in that sold out conference at the Century City hotel on the Avenue for the Stars. It was fun for parents too!

We host people as part of the AirBnb network - its like staying at home and the world comes to visit! I realized how different a life we lead than most because our visitors tell us.... "I have never stayed in a house with so many magazines (Atlantic, New Yorker, Harpers, the Economist, etc) and the New York Times newspaper delivered daily"

My life is so different from my mother's that she has been saying for decades that she has no idea what I do for a living, but it seems to involve computers. She tried to learn but never could get the hang of it - she actually went to a class with friends - and for none of them would it "take".

Yesterday my sister from Singapore sent me photos that she'd taken during my visit home for my mother's birthday. They arrive in an envelope in a card, in the mail delivered by a postman - and my husband exclaimed "Nobody prints out regular photos anymore, much less mail them to anyone!"  I liked them very much, its nice to get actual photos that I can frame - thank you Sis!

 Just this morning, I woke up and signed up for an Indiegogo project and found one that my daughter might like so sent a link to her.

Thinking about how differently lives are lived in the course of 3 generations: my mother, myself, my daughter.... I think we have reached a speeded up part of human evolution.

When the first living animals crawled out of the sea onto land, they lived a different life from their parents.

Even my daughter was born before the mobile phone was prevalent - by the time the next generation grows up, they will not know what it is like to live without being able to contact anyone in the world - synchronously or via the Internet asynchronously - at any place, at any moment.

Are we crawling out from inside our own heads, into a shared head space with the rest of the world - connected by mobile devices?

Thanks to the folks in Singapore from "we are social" for creating the video below which triggered these thoughts on a beautiful morning in Spring.








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Monday, February 11, 2013

Tribal Leadership - networking the tribes

Happy Chinese New Year - the beginning of the year of the snake seems a great time to talk about this book Tribal Leadership - read last night and found very powerful and useful.

So much so, I was moved to mention put forward ideas triggered by the book in a comment at the blog about horizontal leadership by Charlie Detar at the MIT Center for Civic Media


Here's the radical thought - Imagine if working with social networks and you were trying to figure out if they are strong and sustainable and growing, or weak and weakening and just hanging on.

What if you had a way to  track what was going on in participant's mind real time?

What if you had a way to track what was going on in participant's heart real time?


And then discovering that we already have a way to do this - it is not automated but we have a way which has been developed over millennia that is just the way we humans have operated for such a long time, that we do it unconsciously.

To know what is in a participant's mind - the best clues come from the words they use - - their words and language offer us a window. Do you think we might be able to make a first assessment about whether they are a surly individual, a rugged individual, an ocasional team player, a committed and competitive team player or someone motivated by the great civic good?

To know what is in a participant's heart - the best clues come from the relationships they form - the strength and length and depth of the relationships offer us a window. Do you think we might be able to make a first assessment about how open their heart is to other people, and whether they are the kind of person who likes to invest in long term relationships or believes only in being able to commit for a medium amount of time, or prefer to have a short interaction and that's that?

The book Tribal Leadership stimulated these thoughts - its a well researched book by USC professor Dave Logan and his consulting partners with an appendix about their research methods and how they came to these postulations about which kinds of tribes and tribal leaders perform "better".

Many parts rang true for me, I highly recommend the book Tribal Leadership - for me, it was one of the moments.... when the student is ready, the teacher will appear.

Where was I when I read this book? I was staying 25 stories above Central Park at the time of the February snow blizzard that brought 11.4 inches of snow to NYC - Yesterday I walked from 12th st to 110 st, visiting the High line Park, The Russian Tea House for high tea, and Lincoln Center to watch a great film Sound City made by Dave Grohl who played in Nirvana and Foo Fighters. Great music and great heart - a tribute to analog recording in a world gone digital. The picture below shows the Chrysler building in Mid town from the UN Plaza. Amazing place to visit. Simone DeBeauvoir said you couldn't sleep there was so much going on in Manhattan - I could understand why she said that - I'm tired but happy after my week in NY.










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Saturday, January 05, 2013

Happy New Year - 2013 - the year of mapping and meaning

When people feel overwhelmed by the amount of information now available, I think of what it was like in the East Coast of America when there was a physical "Wild West frontier" and it was overwhelming to understand what was possible over there in the "Wild West". Today, there are maps, news, stories, and the West is not so wild.

Our digital frontier reminds me of the Wild West of olden days. We are starting to make meaning and maps of the information wilderness. As we work together to acquire knowledge and understanding, I'm wondering if this is the year when we start mapping the frontier, so that we can compare notes meaningful ways that recognize each of us see and look for different things.







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Thursday, December 06, 2012

What's been happening

Attended the Knowledge Federation Conference at the Inter University Center in Dubrovnik Croatia - thanks to Dino Karabeg for the best conference organizing - we all arrived in Zagreb and took a 2 day bus ride through Bosnia which assured lots of serendipitous conversations - Sept/Oct 2012

FutureTalk - the community access TV show I co-founded and co-produce with Marty Wasserman the host of the show, is one of the 5 finalists at the CreaTV San Jose awards "Walk the Red Carpet" for our episode on the Maker's Faire. Our latest show tracks the latest progress in neuroscience. Nov 2012

TEDxBayArea - lead by the amazing Tatyana Kanzaveli put on "Ignite" a full day of inspiring ideas and talks for women entrepreneurs. Read all about it here. December 1 2012

This has been a truly rewarding 3 years on the organizing team for me and I want to encourage new talent to come on board the organizing team for the annual full day TEDx event, you can apply here.

Health as a Team Sport We have been  exploring how to encourage "many to many" connections in the service of better health for all. Thanks to Bill Daul and Ellen Lovelidge for co-hosting with me.






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Great Mobile stats


  • 25% of Americans use the mobile device as their sole source of internet access – On Device Research
  • By 2015, more U.S. Internet users will access the web via mobile devices than PCs or other wireline channels – IDC Research





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Sunday, September 23, 2012

Seeing what is before you

A beautiful 38 minute video about seeing as artists do.

Why is this important? The amount of information flooding our senses leads us to use our eyes to filter - as they have always done for us to see. So non-artists can begin to cultivate the skills of artists to develop clarity as the info flood threatens to overwhelm.






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